打開大門, 空蕩蕩的客廳, 一張簡單的木桌子, 一組舒服的布沙發, 有點泛黃的象牙白, 帶著有點模糊的感情, 還殘留著
輕輕的關上門, 就這樣, 他知道一天又過完了, 一個人在這個一樣的城市中, 跟一群又點陌生卻又裝作熟悉的人, 過完了
沒有回頭, 手仍握著那串鑰匙, 另一手提著裝滿還沒處理完的文件的包包, 『至少, 不是感情的問題要處理』,看了一下陽台, 盆栽裡面的花朵有紅, 有紫, 很美, 『這樣就好了』,他嘆了口氣, 把那串鑰匙放回口袋, 慢慢地走回房間
推開門, 房間裡面的擺飾有些零亂, 但仍然稱得上整齊, 櫃上的相片還是擺著, 沒換過, 水裡的小魚仍然游著, 悠遊地, 『好可愛唷, 這樣就好了』
Workshop - Listening Skills & Note Taking Strategies
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iuQ8ZfguFm8&feature=related part 1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rdS-rEtQMuI&feature=related part 2
pic from: http://ammaryasir.files.wordpress.com/2007/10/technical_writing-1.jpg
Writing or composition, as its very basic definition, is the act of combining parts or elements to form a whole. However, to many people, especially those who are faced with the challenge of exams, they don't have such a leisurely and carefree mood to do that. Indeed, in the high school times, it was hard for me to write so many thing on a paper. What's more, it is not just to put things together on, attention: you are not throwing trash to your trash can, and give to the teacher, unless you want to get a very embarrassing score, it is not really recommanded.
Little by little, one day when practicing writing with my cute Nippon shapu pencil, I found something interesting. The words on the paper seemed not odd any more. Instead, they looked quite familiar, just like my relatives and ex-boyfriends. They are so close mentally but still faraway physically. However, rather than step back and jump out of my cute wood chair, I summoned up my courage and studied them. Out of my expectation, I appreciated the joy of composition.
Since I entered the university, I have written lots of articles. Well, most of them are about LOVE. It is very cliched. I know, but I just cannot help but write a lot. The reason I write LOVE is because this is the only thing that I experience most of my life. Without LOVE, I don't believe there's anyone able to survive. Perhaps love is really unique and vital to me. Lots of cognition emerge in my heart after my personal experience and sometimes when there's no one you can tell, even your BEST friends are busy with their LOVE STUFF, the best way to convey my feelings is to WRITE.
pic from: http://img.blogs.abril.com.br/1/energiavital/avatar/colorido.jpg
「......」
按下播放鍵，他決定讓自己好好沉浸在時尚當中，
縱使只是時下的pop teen，對他來說，都是流行。
pic from: http://tecnoculto.com/wp-content/uploads/nails_in_love_02.jpg
將近子夜，映入眼簾的，從一段話，變成了只有一句話，甚至是一個字而已。
時間，很快的就要邁入十二點，路過的音樂，在耳邊訴說著另一個世界的故事。而我，只是靜靜地聽著它，讓它帶著我寫著手中的這篇文章。寫著一些，關於我們初次相遇卻無疾而終的這些懷念和感觸。
「再一個月吧，」記得當初你是這麼說的。
遇到剛分手沒多久的你，我，似乎是個錯亂的時間點中出現的一口水而已。
成功與否不再是能力問題，而是心態問題－－向不可能說可能的頭腦學。
此書分為四個部份，但是有八個篇章，中間有四個分為從運動、企業、情感以及長者（像是老師、家長、教練等）來討論Mindset的重要。往往我們在生活中認為一旦要努力便不是一個成功的人，或是我們明明知道要努力，卻覺得自己再努力都不會成功，因為已經有人成功，或是已經被失敗給打敗。無論是哪種，在這本書裡面都有談論關於這些人的心態。
簡言之，人分為：定型心態者以及成長心態者。
但是許多人會混合兩種的特質，並非單純一種，然而往往成功的人士成長心態的比重大於定型心態。
書裡面安赫最有興趣的莫過於情感的議題，因此當閱讀完一到三章時，便迫不及待的看看這位Carol S. Dweck有何獨特見解。在裡面，我看到的並非像吸引力法則一般地要去設定或是去自細地反省感情，反而更懂得情感也跟每件事情一樣，要好好做、努力做、修正錯誤，關係才會成功。也就是說無論在什麼情況下，我們都要懂得去學習，去修正自己。感情也是一樣。
伸了伸懶腰，皺了皺眉，展了展脖子
「... 恩...恩...」
潔白的被子從他的身上滑了下來，
那就像是一陣微風般地輕撫過，這麼溫柔，這麼舒服，
而漂亮的肌肉線條在晨光下顯得更加閃耀，不管從哪一個角度觀看，
『我相信每個當下做的決定都是最適合自己當下的，即使在他人的眼裡看來荒唐、可憐，
自己都要站穩，並且修正，往自己的目標邁進，縱使再痛，都要向前進......』
「早知道就不要吃那個了，好難吃唷......」
「為什麼要買這個？早知道就換成......」
